Thursday, 29 May 2014

Europe... Here we come!!! - Part 1




This was the trip that marked last year.  Yes, we took this trip last year, and that too at the peak of winter. Where we crazy??? Yes, we were!!!  I cherish this holiday sooo much that I wanted to relive every moment and document it here.  I wanted to hold on to every memory, and didn’t want any of that to slip into spaces of my mind, from where it cannot be retrieved. Now that kind of detailing requires a whole lot of time, energy.. and well.. patience to go with it. So I waited for the ‘right time’. But even after five months, the right time never came.  Gee! So here Iam, penning down the most exciting parts of my holiday, taking you all through it and reliving it!!




For me, any event or holiday is divided into three exciting parts – 1. Planning for it. 2. Actually experiencing it. 3. Sharing it with people.  Planning for an upcoming event that I look forward to gives me an amazing high, sometimes higher than the high the actual event gives!!!  I remember the time when my sister got married. I drove my then  to-be bro-in-law (now bro-in-law) up the wall with my endless questions, nagging and attention to detail. He still teases me about it, and I precisely remember what he said about my need to discuss about what I want to discuss with someone. Lol! And when my parents and sis toured Europe, I was the one who was most excited about it. I spend hours and days researching about it, and thoroughly enjoyed the process. I wanted them to have a great time and also, I was very scared that they would get lost! But when me and V toured Europe, it was a completely different scenario.  V is in the Airline industry and  not surprisingly, he has lot of contacts with the travel industry. So he sorted everything out, sadly with very little input from my end. This dampened my spirits a little. Add to it the fact that, I was down with a vicious attack of gut-wrenching cough.  I had a course of antibiotics, and several other medicines, but with little result.  And V also fell prey to the same kind of cough and was on antibiotics too.  Nobody in their right mind would travel to a cold destination during winter when plagued by bad health. But we did. The travel tickets were booked, hotels were confirmed, leave was sanctioned, and we had dreamt both separately (before we met each other) and together (after we met each other) about this holiday for a long long time. We wanted to explore Europe, experience snow in all its glory and enjoy a white Christmas. So this was the right time. So we packed our backs, said our prayers, resumed our antibiotics and  set off to Europe!!!

                                                   



                                                               (the view from the flight)



                                                     (clicked inside the flight)    



                                            

                                                                    (view just before landing)


Our first destination was  Switzerland. After 7.5  hours of flying,  we landed at the Zurich Airport.  We had booked our hotel at Lucerne, and so had to take a train from Zurich to Lucerne. So without wasting much time, we hurried out of the Zurich Airport. We were  not in winter clothes, so we quickly put on our jackets and gloves.  But as soon as we stepped out of the airport, we were greeted by bone-numbing chillness. As we walked pushing our luggage trolleys, little circles of smoke escaped from our mouths and noses. We looked at each other with wonder and amusement, and giggled like school kids. We walked to the Zurich metro station at the other end, just in time to miss the train to Lucerne. “ If only he hadn’t waited to click that pic at the airport”, I thought to myself. “If only she had walked a bit faster”, I am sure he would have thought to himself.  Anyways, we both were too tired, too sleepy, too excited, too hungry to voice our opinions. So we checked at  the enquiry and realised that we had to wait for half an hour to catch the next train to Lucerne. But the next train from Zurich was in 5 mins, and we could get off on the way (forgot the name of the place) , and catch a train from there to Lucerne. So we did the math and climbed on the next train. Actually, we didn’t do the math.  I thought I did, and he agreed without offering much resistance. And our choice of the train did precious little in time-saving. It didn't help that we both are alien to the art of travelling light. The airlines allowed 30kgs of baggage per passenger, and that is precisely how much we both carried. Switching trains meant that we had to carry that much weight in and out of the train one extra time. That is no piece of cake, I tell you.  But we were bewitched by the scenary that greeted us on our way to Lucerne. That lifted our spirits considerably.
                                                   

 So we reached Lucerne, and walked to our hotel pulling our trolley bags.  Our hotel was too close to hail a cab, and too far to go by foot. But we didn’t want to spend money on the cab. That was an unsaid rule between us. So walked we did.


                                             (yes, we clicked pix while hunting for the hotel)


 

                       
       
                                                    (  All lit up - after all, it was christmas time!!!)

 We climbed a looong flight of stairs carrying our luggage (actually, he carrying)only to realise that we didn’t really have to climb that stairs.  We couldn’t locate the hotel, so I waited at a side-pavement with the luggage offering me company, while he hunted for our hotel. I waited for quite some time, but V didn’t  return. It was getting dark, and there weren’t many people around. The ones around looked a bit..shady. Maybe I imagined that. I began to grow restless. I didn’t have an international number to call him. What if someone had mugged him? I dismissed that thought. But what if someone mugs me? I felt stranded in a foreign land. We had to catch an early morning flight from Dubai. And we spent the whole of previous night packing and repacking, and managed to catch just a couple of hours of sleep. I managed to watch two movies during the flight. Anyways, the cabin crew won't let you sleep, so I thought I might as well watch movies. Eight hours flight, plus two hours of the train ride, and the walk made my legs numb. Oh damn!! I was sleepy, hungry, tired, and did I say I was HUNGRY?  My legs were aching and I sat on the stairs. My ass froze, and I got up with a start. I realized I was nor properly dressed for the winter. I just wanted to cry. There I was .. in a foreign land… alone..  feeling stranded… scared…  tired and hungry… feeling cold.. I just wanted to go home…..

..To be continued...

Friday, 23 May 2014

I feel your love...





"Love is not love, unless it is mad"!!!








​I feel your love..
in ur warm embraces..
in those urgent kisses..
in the half-hearted good byes
and the ecstatic meetings...

I feel your love...
when you hold my hand,
in the midst of mad traffic...
and when you walk behind me
protecting me from the crowd..

I feel your love
when you tip toe outta the room
giving me uninterrupted sleep 
and when u let me stay in the shade
and walk in the sun alone..

I feel your love
in those lingering gazes
in the gentle touches
in your soothing words
and those moments of silence...

I feel your love.
in the stupid fights we make,
and the passionate patch ups that follow,
and when we together pick up
our trampled egos...


​Times will change,  and so will our love...
to more serious, profound and a matured kind
but for now, let us enjoy this love,
while it is still mad, senseless and a crazy kind...




P.S - To our unmarried friends - we are not always 'lovey-dovey'. We do fight like two people who are possessed!

P.P.S - To our married friends - you should know.

Wednesday, 19 February 2014

Valentine's Weekend Getaway



  

Valentine's day was surprisingly surprising :) You might wonder what that means. I shall explain. Sometimes I 'know' that there is some 'surprise' in store for me. I just don't know what the surprise is. So I just sit back, relax and wait to be surprised. What the heck? I was lying. I get totally kicked about the impending surprise, and keep wondering what exactly the surprise would be. But this Valentine's Day was surprisingly surprising.

My husband is big on the 'days' - Birthdays, Wedding anniversaries, Christmas, Newyears and the likes. Me on the other hand, has been brought up with enough 'wisdom' and  a steady diet of 'cynicism' to think that it is all one big marketing strategy. Buhahaha!! We rarely celebrated such days in my family. Except, maybe birthdays. Birthdays were slightly more elaborate affair. But all other special days mostly involved door delivery and watching Television.  My dad didn't believe in such days. Hence the lack of huge celebrations. My mom believed in all those. Hence the door delivery. And I grew up as a confused child, at the worst; and a flexible child at the best. I was okay with treating all these days as just another day. I didn't get depressed (may be a tad bit disappointed) if I was alone on any of these days. I could easily convince myself that it is not a big deal. But I would secretly wish for a celebration. So yea, flexible that way.

But once I met V, things changed dramatically. Every special day has been made special and memorable hence. But we never celebrated a Valentine's day. Mostly because we were never together for any of the  Valentine's Days. We were away for our first V-day after wedding, and he sent me a cake and a bouquet of flowers. But somehow, I expected this V-day to be a dull one, because we were around 20 months into our marriage - 4 birthdays  (mine 2, his 2) 1 Valentine's day and 1 wedding anniversary down. So I didn't make any grand plans and just bought a card for him.

V called me from work on Thursday noon and told me to pack my bags AND get dressed AND that we were going on a small holiday AND he was going to get me in a couple of hours AND that he will be home for lunch. I should have been excited and jumping with joy. But I hated it. To begin with, I was feeling under the weather and was planning to take the day a little easy, not cook anything for lunch and just eat some leftover. But if V comes home for lunch, I would want to make some proper lunch. That problem was sorted when he offered to get some food delivered at the door. But that doesn't solve everything. A girl needs to pair the right kind of clothes, match it carefully (but should appear carelessly) with her shoes, bags and  accessories. She needs to make sure she doesn't forget her sunscreens. moisturisers and lip balms. And above all, she needs to FIND all those things in her cluttered wardrobe, without that resulting in a clotheslide.(something that can be equated with a landslide). But thankfully, she did  manage successfully. I managed successfully. So off we went to Golden Tulips, Ghantout, Abu Dhabi. We had a very beautiful stay and had a beautiful Valentine's weekend.



                                             The aesthetically-designed interiors







                                                       
                                                                 The surprise V gifts :)



                                             The beauuuutiful pool in which I we spent hours on  end                                      













                                                 My favourite pic clicked on the day



                                                        It is awesome to be surrounded by water




                                            This really makes me want to live in a water-villa :)
 

                                    
                                                    The lovely-looking restaurant



                                             The Valentine's Day dinner - The juiciest Rib eye
                        


                                               Rich & creamy Penne Carbonara


                                          Complete with desserts -Yummy Yummy  Strawberry Cheese Cake

 

                                          And just so-so Caramel Pudding



I had a splendid Valentine's Day - Spectacular locale, cozy room, surprise gifts, lip-smacking food and couple-time. Sorry honey, for throwing a fit and almost calling off the getaway, just because I didn't quite feel like it. :(
       

Hope all you guys had a wonderful Valentine's weekend!

Saturday, 25 January 2014

Cochin...




Look what I have done to this blog? I started it with a lot of love and a lot of enthusiasm, but ignored it for TWO WHOLE months. Well.. not totally ignored though. I would check it from time to time, hoping to find some comments in the "comments section". To my disappointment, I found none. But I have plenty of stuff happening in my drafts. They never see the light of the day cuz 1) I feel the need to supplement my posts with photographs, to catch interest and all. And I have still not figured how to transfer photos from V's camera. I am sooper scared to even hold it, so I let him do all the transferring. I remind him from time to time, to copy all the photographs. But I don't want to nag.  2) I find the motivation and time to start writing, but I find neither, while I am half way through the post. I think marriage has kinda domesticated me. So I spend more time 'thinking' about the household chores ( as opposed to actually doing it), rather than thinking up some smart lines for my posts. Duh!

On a brighter note, I am in my home town 'Cochin'. My parents had visited us in Dubai during the festive season, and we had a great time celebrating christmas and Newyears together. (But more about that later). So this time I was not overtly excited to get back home. And when I left Dubai (cuz V was travelling for work), I felt something tugging at my heartstrings. That is when I realized that I would be missing him. One of those moments that remind me why I married him :)

I landed at Cochin at 3.30 am, after a sleepless flight. Unfortunately, I got the middle seat, which I loathe. I felt very 'sandwiched'. But I entertained myself by watching "Ganchakkar". Since Vidya Balan is a  favourite, I enjoyed the otherwise-senseless-movie. But what I didn'ty enjoy at all was the fact that the guy who sat next to me didn't bother to switch his screen on, but was looking at my screen the whole while. I mean, he was just watching a movie. But why can't he just watch movies on HIS screen? And guess wot, after a while, the girl sitting next to me stopped watching whatever was playing on her screen and started watching the movie that I was playing on my screen, Weird, huh?

Anyways, after reaching Cochin, I just couldn't handle the heat. Its winter in Doobai now. So I went from less than 20 degrees to 35 degrees in quick 4 hours. This change in temperature is taking a toll on me. I am so tired all the time. But catching up with my friend at Cocoa Tree totally cheered me up for two reasons. 1) Cocoa Tree is one of my fav hangouts. 2)This friend has an ability to have me in splits all the time. We can yap endlessly and still have a lot to talk about. She is definitely a stress-buster and a laugh riot. She is the kind of girl who can cheer you up anyday with her sunshine persona. Definitely the kind of friend everyone needs. And add to it the fact that it was more like a mini celebrity outing for me ;).There was actress Kukku Parameshwar with a friend and also a  contestant from the reality show 'Midukki'. But what made my day is that the young actress 'Parvathy Menon' also stepped in. I loved her right from her 'Notebook' days. She came across as a very strong and independent woman in all her interviews. But what really conquered my heart was her exemplary performance in the Tamil movie 'Maryan'. She was simply outstanding. I walked up to her and struck up a conversation. She came across as a very sweet person. She said, 'I am so sorry I look like this. I just woke up'. She looked very petite and cute - quite a contradiction from her on-screen look. After that I took a walk till the new 'Crossword'. I am assuming it is the first 'Crossword' in Cochin. As I told you, I love being in the midst of books, so had a great time browsing. A lot of books caught my interest, but I was determined not to buy anything, unless I finish all the books I already have. But I couldn't resist Judy Balan's 'Sophie Says'. Judy is one of my favoutrite bloggers, and her blog brings a smile to my face. I have been looking for this book for a while, but couldn't find it. So I just grabbed it.


Yes, Cochin has something about it... I think the beauty of Cochin lies in its moderation. It is a hip city if you want it to be..(atleast as hip as Kerala allows it to be).. You have the the hangouts, party places, multiplexes, shopping malls, luxury cars, chic crowd etc.. But you can also enjoy a very simple life, without getting affected by any of these. :) To me, Cochin is comforting, Cochin is where my parents live, Cochin is where most of my relatives live, Cochin is where I can speak my mother tongue, Cochin is where I  bump into friends or acquaintances, Cochin is where I can hail a rick and reach where ever I want in no time, Cochin is home...


Reliving some beautiful days in Cochin through some of my favourite  pics...


Clicked @ Hotel Abad Plaza on one of my birthdays while lunching with family...



                                                  (click image for larger view)



                        Clicked on the day V came home for the first time.. The happiness is evident :)                               

                                                             (click image for larger view)


The most memorable, yet the scariest day of my life - my wedding day... I was so tired with all the standing,  I thought I might want to surgically remove my legs.. Argghhhhh! Yet, I managed to smile through it :)


                                                           (click image for larger view)



On a mad day when my sis and aunt decided to indulge me by clicking my pics non stop. How sweet of them. :).. This hairstyle of mine gave me the nickname "pekinese" for obvious reasons !!!

                       
                                                          (click image for larger view)


One of my all-time favourite pics. I think V's favourite pic of mine too:)


                                                                  (click image for larger view)

Friday, 15 November 2013

Sharjah International Book Festival





I am a lover of books... I love walking into a crossword (or any bookshop, for that matter), finding a cozy nook and flipping through books... I love the feeling of holding a book in my hands, smelling its pages and reading its blurb... I get totally excited by seeing  a new book... Sometimes, even talking about a new book gives me an adrenaline rush... Now that doesn't mean that I am a voracious reader... Strange, isn't it? I know... How much ever I love being taken into a different world through books, I always find something more lovable to do... I need a very quiet, lonesome place to start reading a book.. Most often,  my laptop, TV, mobile phone or magazines take up my free time.. But once I do get hooked on to a book, I find it really hard to keep it down...   I love sitting alone at a  coffee shop and enjoying a book, sometimes enjoying the coffee more than the book (esply if its cold coffee with whipped cream)...But I love immersing in a book the best, when I am travelling.. That is when I have very few things to distract me..except, ofcourse the fellow travellers who want to distract.. But then books are the best excuse to keep them at bay....


There is no wonder then that the Sharjah Book Fair excited me.. I get to walk into a hall full of books!!. That thrilled me to the core...So, me and V did go to the fair and I had a good time being amidst the books. Well, I didn't buy any books though.. Ofcorz, we are Indians who do the conversion math after all!.. So I carefully noted some book titles to be bought during my next visit to India...


When I asked V to click a pic of mine, he obliged readily, but not before making me pose with this book titled "Why men marry bitches".. He tells me he could have easily co-authored the book :D


                           (click the image for a larger view)


This is the Live Cooking Corner.. Many internationally acclaimed chefs whip up their recipes in front of us.. Sanjeev Kapoor and Vicky Ratnani were also among them... But unfornately, I had to give it a miss.. I was really starving, and went as close as I could get to the cooking corner, hoping that I would get to sample something.. But tough luck :P





Another click from the Fair...





Doobai Diaries...





Unlike most Malayali girls from middle-class families, I NEVER wanted to marry a man working in the Middle East. I was pretty much sure that I would be living in India all my life, in one of the metros preferably. This is not because I was fiercely patriotic or anything. But it is because I was pretty sure that I would make it big in my life, and living in India, kind of facilitated it. Becoming successful internationally was a tall order. Gee ;).

On a more serious note, I wanted to be closer to home, not too far away from my parents, sister and a lot of relatives we Indians are entitled to have. Even though, I love novelty and excitement, I am very much a creature of habit. Home sickness can sometimes get the better of me. So venturing too far away from my home town was never part of my plans. But there is a nomad in me, who loves to travel the world and explore. The nomad in me has places to see, things to do, cultures to absorb, cuisines to try out and adventures to get psyched out in. But even though I love holidaying in exotic locations, moving to a new country with a stranger freaked me out.


 When my parents were out looking for a groom, I made it very clear that I do not want to marry a  guy who is based in a foreign country. But I realized that what matters in the end is to have a great life with a good partner. And by focusing on guys who are based only in India, I am limiting my chances of finding a good partner. Slowly, I opened myself up to the idea of settling abroad. But I decided that Middle East would be last on my priority list. Stories about the exorbitant heat, traffic jams,  astronomical house rents, bad quality of water etc turned me off. But my life took an unexpected turn when I fell in love with a  guy based in Dubai. I eventually married him  and shifted base to Dubai.


 I remember the day I left my home country, with copious amount of tears rolling down my cheeks and my heart heavy with sorrow, fears and doubts. Accustoming to my new life was a tough task. A new country, a new home, new people, new relatives, new lifestyle, new routine, new responsibilities, new surroundings, new currency and expensive calls to India... Sigh! But despite the difficulties, I began to take a liking towards Dubai. I loved the clean roads, centrally-air conditioned flats, humongous malls, fast cars, beautiful beaches, lovely parks, an actual winter, lots of places to hangout, and lots of interesting events happening there. Even though I always missed my home town Cochin in particular, and my home country in general, I embraced my new land of residence. I made little discoveries along the way. I marvelled at some,  and wrinkled my nose at some others. This blog is mostly about my life here - the little adventures I make and the mundane, every day triviality.